Archive for Perspective

Mar
29

Switch-Position MP3

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Click below to lis­ten to the Switch-Position exercise.

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Is that use­ful for you? Please leave me a com­ment below!

Thanks!

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Mar
29

How NOT to go Bananas

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Some­times, mis­un­der­stand­ing arises when we do not under­stand other people’s map of the world, or in other words, when we can­not put our­selves in their shoes.

Each per­son reacts to the other, the sit­u­a­tion esca­lates, emo­tions inten­sify, and the chance of reach­ing a mutu­ally ben­e­fi­cial agree­ment dis­ap­pears in a puff of smoke.

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Categories : Coaching, How To, NLP, Reframe
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Jan
23

What’s “Impossible”?

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A few days ago, I had an inter­est­ing con­ver­sa­tion with a friend who “refused to believe” (his words) that some­one could walk over red hot fire coals unharmed. “Prove to me that it is pos­si­ble!” he said. The fact that I have seen peo­ple fire­walk­ing unharmed thou­sands of time, was not a proof. “It is impossible”.

So what is “impos­si­ble” really?

Over 2000 years ago, the philoso­pher Zeno of Greece proved math­e­mat­i­cally that it is impos­si­ble to cross a river. The argu­ment was as fol­low: “the dis­tance between one bank of the river and the other is made of an infi­nite amount of points. It takes an infi­nite amount of time to cross an infi­nite amount of points. There­fore it is impos­si­ble to cross a river” (I guess most of you didn’t know that it is impos­si­ble to cross a river, did you?)

We had to wait 2000 years and the advent of Cal­cu­lus to show math­e­mat­i­cally that an infi­nite amount of points can be crossed in a finite amount of time. Sud­denly, in a split sec­ond, the impos­si­ble became pos­si­ble (phew!)

Pro­fes­sor Stephen Hawk­ing, the father of sev­eral key sci­en­tific dis­cov­er­ies in the field of cos­mol­ogy and physics said: “It does not mean it is impos­si­ble. Only that our under­stand­ing is incom­plete”.

Con­clu­sion 1 is a ques­tion: How can I trans­late this in my life?

Con­clu­sion 2: As Paul Wat­zlaw­ick used to say, emo­tional health comes from growth, not healing.

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Dec
20

Is Logic Logical

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Often, the solu­tion to our prob­lems lies in the abil­ity to see things from a dif­fer­ent point of view.

Some­thing to con­tem­plate (from the philoso­pher Wittgenstein):

We are tempted to think that because we know 1, we know 2 because 1 and 1 equal 2; but we for­got to look at the “and”. If you com­bine 1 litre of alco­hol and 1 litre of water you do not get 2 litres (try it, you’ll see)!

Think! In peo­ple, when 1+1 equal more than 2, it is called syn­ergy! When it is less, conflict!

In what ways can you make 1+1 more than 2, in your per­sonal life, busi­ness, health?

Expand your point of view!

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Dec
20

Modern Science and Eastern Mysticism

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Early 20th cen­tury sci­en­tific research on how the brain stores mem­o­ries had shown that rats could still run a maze with a major part of their brain removed, which brought about the con­clu­sion that mem­o­ries were not stored in the brain, but through­out the whole body (the basis of the sci­en­tific proof of the mind-body connection).

Karl Pri­bram, in his pio­neer­ing work on the brain and the ner­vous sys­tem which led to the devel­op­ment of the holo­nomic model, shows that mem­o­ries are stored, not in cells, but as wave pat­terns. His break­through dis­cov­ery that the Human ner­vous sys­tem func­tions a holo­gram opened a whole new dimen­sion to how we see the Mind and the ner­vous sys­tem (have you ever heard that we are only using 10% of the capac­i­ties of our brain?). A holo­gram is a light field result­ing from the inter­fer­ence of two light beams (one of them going through an object) on a record­ing medium which appears as a 3D object. One of the inter­est­ing qual­i­ties of the holo­gram is that if you break the holo­graphic plate, you get 2 whole pictures.

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